Playing with Daddy

 

Playing with Daddy
By Arda Dinata
http://www.miqra.blogspot.com

"Often people try to live life in reverse; they try to have more goods, more money, in order to do things that they want more, so they are more happy. Actually, the correct way is the opposite. You first have to be real yourself, then do what you need to do, in order to have more things that you want. " (Margaret Young).

That afternoon, the weather was so bright. Mr. Dennis, as usual after the Asr prayer, just got home from work. When I got home, Mr. Dennis said good-bye and opened the door of the house. There, found her daughter, Alifia (5 th), who was waiting and greeted with enthusiasm over his father's presence. This child, as if his father does not care conditions. Let the condition of his father's tired, tired, and need a break. Just in his mind there is only one word, that is "playing with my father". In his mind, playing with dad is the most fun thing.

In that situation, usually the liver Dennis pack will yield to obey her son. And Mr. Dennis amuse himself in the heart by saying, "Is not I as a parent should be able to position his mind with the mind of the child. Anyway we as parents should be able to formulate a sense of weary, wise, emotional children, educational, and entertainment into a form of charity sincerity, "said her heart.

Finally, Mr. Dennis was created together with his son. Both play a bike ride around the house. Gone was "feeling tired" Mr. Dennis, changing matchless joy, neither he nor his son. And as usual, when play was Mr. Dennis did not forget to slip tarbiyah of life to his son.

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Entertainment is an additional requirement - that contributed enough in the development of a child -. This entertainment activities, will form the mind and physical refreshment. Is the saturation of the drug from one's life routine. Good for the husband, wife, or children.

In a corridor like that, usually emotional parents become melted. Parents of a child wishes to get entertainment. What entertainment? As happened in Mr. Dennis, was the surprise. The kids just want to ride a bike. By riding a bike around the neighborhood RT, the boy's face looked so happy. So did the other families, the kids really do not require a lot about the type of entertainment. But, he wanted to play with the ability of the parents.

You could say that Dennis pack step, is something that became a personal icon wise father. Because according to Margaret Young, often people try to live life in reverse; they try to have more goods, more money, in order to do things that they want more, so they are happier. Actually, the correct way is the opposite. You first have to be real yourself, then do what you need to do, in order to have more things that you want.

Riding a bike, so modest. No need to cost a lot and everyone older relative can do it. But, it's simple, just Subanallah benefits. Among them, how we can teach good gratitude, respect others, the activity of Practice in the world, and others. Tarbiyah it, would still be within the reach of mind and language of his age.

One of the comforting impression of a child on a bicycle that is the process of educating children to be grateful for favors. Actualization of gratitude that is simply delicious, we can cite for example bagimana man who was given a perfect body members compared to other living creatures; creation of animals, plants; the sun, stars, sky, clouds, etc.. Or a non-material such delicious and healthy pleasure of leisure, so that we can play.

Pokonya, providing additional needs for family entertainment. Especially in children is more important than others. The Prophet said, "Providing an additional one to his family more important than the additional provision to others, such as extra person than someone prays berjama'ah own prayers." (Narrated by Ibn Abi Shaybah Abu). And Allaah knows best .***

Author Founder Inspiration Assembly Qur'an and Reality of Nature (MIQRA) Indonesia. http://www.miqra.blogspot.com