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Emancipation and straightened Nation Building Character By Arda Dinata
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TALK about a woman would never-ending, like an oasis that is not boring, the discussion will be more swayed by it. Napoleon Bonaparte once said that the advancement of women is as a measure of the progress of the mother country that can shake the crocodile with his left hand, can also shake the world with his right hand.
Associated with it, a question arises in response to the deterioration condition of Indonesia today. That is, if there is one of the behavior of women in Indonesia, if we associate with the condition of this nation?
At this time, there is a very strong tendency among women, from any layer, to work. Once a woman completing her education, then what is pictured in his mind the world of work. Working for a wage or salary. The point is to work outside the home (Suharsono, 2002:23).
In response to the trend (read: a woman who lost a mother nature), we have to consider what questionable Said Eve, that is not more respectful to women, if all the logistics and financing secured by her husband's life, rather than have to work outside the home and doing work out of character? Are children better growth in the care of his mother, or in the care of day care?
In response to these phenomena, there are three determined women born in the first congress in Yogyakarta, December 22, 1928, the foster unity, appearing along with the men of independence and ideals continue to gain the right to live in nature as a woman. Is still relevant to the meaning of travel in the independence of development today.
According H.M. Hembing Wijayakusuma (1995: 426), three Indonesian women determined to continue fighting, especially the right to live according to nature. But one thing that abstinence underestimated, the role of mothers as housewives. The father even though there are exceptions, but the service in the office, or in place to hang with my family lived for a living, will be heavily influenced by the role of the wife in the household. Religion Islam teaches that paradise was the mother ditelapak feet. Can the mother live the meaning of this doctrine that has always been a fad of the child and the outpouring of affection a husband? That's the most valuable guidelines to be featured as a household sweetener honey and fragrances nation with his mother.
In other languages, Suharsono (2002: 25-26) reveals that it seems we need to contemplate disabdakan a statement of the Prophet, "Heaven under the heel of the mother." When we refer to well this statement we should ask, "Is every ( typology) can mensurgakan her mother? "Is typology mother in a patriarchal culture perspective, which only moved from the kitchen to the bed can mensurgakan children? Or conversely, the mothers of feminism in today's perspective, which could mensurgakan children.
Further disclosed, if Islam really appreciate the dignity of women, as the Qur'an letter Luqman, 14 and Ahqaf: 15, is not intended to allow woman becomes a man, by way of employment equality, profession and so on, but to become a mother. Islam does not regulate issues of professional employment for women, especially if the work is done outside the home, because there is no obligation of women to make a living. But on the contrary, Islam set the details of how women should become mothers.
According to H. Sukarti Manan (1999), which became reality today is the term emancipation of women is often incorrectly interpret. The author remembered that with persistent Kartini fought for women degree level with men. When women get the opportunity to "active" in the outside world other than the household, sometimes they unconsciously forget her female nature, the household, including children and husband. Working over time, so the kids just "educated" by others (helper) and led to feelings of "clean" in self-husband.
For that, meaning the emancipation of women must get it straight so as not to stumble this nation into a protracted. In the tone of questions, Elvira W & Eva R (1997), reveals that a phenomenon (phenomena) that we can not deny anymore that the more women who decorate the arena of politics does not close the possibility of showing that the more women involved in the crime world. So if all is a success of the dual role of women or just a mere mirage?? ..
In this case, Maurice Bardeche, experts from the French state is considered as the pioneer of proclaiming the slogan "freedom and equality", in his book "Hestoire des Femmers" warned the mother should not imitate the father, because if so will birth even kinds of people have been born Third, as quoted by the Quraish Shihab in his book "The lantern Heart". He said that "good and commendable if a mother or wife serving her husband, clean and organize the house where he lived, but it was not a duty". (Widaningsih, 2000).
In the meantime, expressed Dadang Kusnandar, if women genuinely do their chores, may be the concept of Islamic households: Baiti Jannati, by itself would be easier terbina. For the most noble of education for other children not originated from the mother. Then direct children to education and love of a mother, more secure conduct to use ruqyah. The children ultimately more controllable and socialize in the middle of social interaction. They are not easily caught up in so many deviations from the behavior of chaos and offers value "new" to make denial of social norms, especially the moral and religious ethics.
Conversely, women who gave their child's education to others without the direct involvement and management of his mother when he was a teenager seemed more flexible in accepting the "paradigm" among teenagers, especially in the cities. Say she became estranged from their environment, even with his own family often become very individualistic. And difficult to avoid the reality showed the existence of a deconstruction of moral and social ethics, often stems from lack harmony family relationships.
This is where the importance of an awareness to become a mother. This awareness is, of course with regard to reproductive issues of women as a discourse of feminism. However, in view of Suharsono (2002), the problem is not enough to "give birth" and a mother and over. Being a mother involves a new understanding and awareness must have for every woman. In addition to the risk of birth weight, motherhood means to have full awareness to equip themselves in order to educate their children. The task to be a mother in this sense, requires a spiritual and intellectual weight is adequate. The mother was the first teacher to her own children. The first person who will be back for his children, a place to ask, complain as well as protection. The answers given and concern of a mother for her children, is crucial for the future of his children.
Character Education
TALK about a woman would never-ending, like an oasis that is not boring, the discussion will be more swayed by it. Napoleon Bonaparte once said that the advancement of women is as a measure of the progress of the mother country that can shake the crocodile with his left hand, can also shake the world with his right hand. Associated with it, a question arises in response to the deterioration condition of Indonesia today. That is, if there is one of the behavior of women in Indonesia, if we associate with the condition of this nation?
At this time, there is a very strong tendency among women, from any layer, to work. Once a woman completing her education, then what is pictured in his mind the world of work. Working for a wage or salary. The point is to work outside the home (Suharsono, 2002:23).
In response to the trend (read: a woman who lost a mother nature), we have to consider what questionable Said Eve, that is not more respectful to women, if all the logistics and financing secured by her husband's life, rather than have to work outside the home and doing work out of character? Are children better growth in the care of his mother, or in the care of day care?
In response to these phenomena, there are three determined women born in the first congress in Yogyakarta, December 22, 1928, the foster unity, appearing along with the men of independence and ideals continue to gain the right to live in nature as a woman. Is still relevant to the meaning of travel in the independence of development today.
According H.M. Hembing Wijayakusuma (1995: 426), three Indonesian women determined to continue fighting, especially the right to live according to nature. But one thing that abstinence underestimated, the role of mothers as housewives. The father even though there are exceptions, but the service in the office, or in place to hang with my family lived for a living, will be heavily influenced by the role of the wife in the household. Religion Islam teaches that paradise was the mother ditelapak feet. Can the mother live the meaning of this doctrine that has always been a fad of the child and the outpouring of affection a husband? That's the most valuable guidelines to be featured as a household sweetener honey and fragrances nation with his mother.
In other languages, Suharsono (2002: 25-26) reveals that it seems we need to contemplate disabdakan a statement of the Prophet, "Heaven under the heel of the mother." When we refer to well this statement we should ask, "Is every ( typology) can mensurgakan her mother? "Is typology mother in a patriarchal culture perspective, which only moved from the kitchen to the bed can mensurgakan children? Or conversely, the mothers of feminism in today's perspective, which could mensurgakan children.
Further disclosed, if Islam really appreciate the dignity of women, as the Qur'an letter Luqman, 14 and Ahqaf: 15, is not intended to allow woman becomes a man, by way of employment equality, profession and so on, but to become a mother. Islam does not regulate issues of professional employment for women, especially if the work is done outside the home, because there is no obligation of women to make a living. But on the contrary, Islam set the details of how women should become mothers.
According to H. Sukarti Manan (1999), which became reality today is the term emancipation of women is often incorrectly interpret. The author remembered that with persistent Kartini fought for women degree level with men. When women get the opportunity to "active" in the outside world other than the household, sometimes they unconsciously forget her female nature, the household, including children and husband. Working over time, so the kids just "educated" by others (helper) and led to feelings of "clean" in self-husband.
For that, meaning the emancipation of women must get it straight so as not to stumble this nation into a protracted. In the tone of questions, Elvira W & Eva R (1997), reveals that a phenomenon (phenomena) that we can not deny anymore that the more women who decorate the arena of politics does not close the possibility of showing that the more women involved in the crime world. So if all is a success of the dual role of women or just a mere mirage?? ..
In this case, Maurice Bardeche, experts from the French state is considered as the pioneer of proclaiming the slogan "freedom and equality", in his book "Hestoire des Femmers" warned the mother should not imitate the father, because if so will birth even kinds of people have been born Third, as quoted by the Quraish Shihab in his book "The lantern Heart". He said that "good and commendable if a mother or wife serving her husband, clean and organize the house where he lived, but it was not a duty". (Widaningsih, 2000).
In the meantime, expressed Dadang Kusnandar, if women genuinely do their chores, may be the concept of Islamic households: Baiti Jannati, by itself would be easier terbina. For the most noble of education for other children not originated from the mother. Then direct children to education and love of a mother, more secure conduct to use ruqyah. The children ultimately more controllable and socialize in the middle of social interaction. They are not easily caught up in so many deviations from the behavior of chaos and offers value "new" to make denial of social norms, especially the moral and religious ethics.
Conversely, women who gave their child's education to others without the direct involvement and management of his mother when he was a teenager seemed more flexible in accepting the "paradigm" among teenagers, especially in the cities. Say she became estranged from their environment, even with his own family often become very individualistic. And difficult to avoid the reality showed the existence of a deconstruction of moral and social ethics, often stems from lack harmony family relationships.
This is where the importance of an awareness to become a mother. This awareness is, of course with regard to reproductive issues of women as a discourse of feminism. However, in view of Suharsono (2002), the problem is not enough to "give birth" and a mother and over. Being a mother involves a new understanding and awareness must have for every woman. In addition to the risk of birth weight, motherhood means to have full awareness to equip themselves in order to educate their children. The task to be a mother in this sense, requires a spiritual and intellectual weight is adequate. The mother was the first teacher to her own children. The first person who will be back for his children, a place to ask, complain as well as protection. The answers given and concern of a mother for her children, is crucial for the future of his children.
Character Education
In the Qur'an, we are reminded to keep the family from hell fire. Allah Almighty says, which means: "O ye who believe, guard yourselves and your families from hell fire fuel is men and stones; ... (Surat At-Tahrim: 6). Iman Ali ibn Abi Talib explain the meaning of this verse, "Educate yourself and kelurgamu with good and pious deeds."
God expressly commands us to educate yourself and family with religious teachings, which formed a devoted family. When the family well, it was a good country. Family is a small country. If you want to build a nation, we must start from the family. (Indris Thaha; 1997:10).
To achieve these conditions, at least here we need a woman, mother, or a Muslim who could become educators as Islamic morality. And the key there is the wealth of knowledge, so we (read: mothers) have demanded a lot of science, especially Islamic religious sciences.
Associated with making women as educators, according Indrawati (1999), revealed that female educators, not just a computer that is ready to store data (files) in my head for a number of knowledge, information, and values that have been, are, and will developed in the community. However, he must be a nimble actors, perform skilled, courageous step with the tough and assertive, and confident.
Further disclosed, the woman created by God instead of man's skull bones, which can only be a thinker. Not only from the leg bone, which can only be obedient to walk. Not all of the bones of the hand can only look up and expect the mercy of others. However, the woman was created from a man's chest cavity, where the center of life begins and should be protected.
Bergetarnya that's where the feelings and faith, which gives the breath berdenyutnya spirit and the will. If the instruments are good, then all orders will be sliding vibration to the brain well. Philosophy should be aware that we all (especially mothers) to realize and develop his personality in order to convey the same phrase that: "The woman is the pillar of state and heaven are in your feet mother".
Paradise is under mothers feet. Another meaning, women are the primary and first educators. Women are peers. The woman is the pillar of the state. The latter, projected that if the women in that country well - morality, intelligence, and spirituality ---, then kokohlah country. On the other hand can be ascertained, if the poor woman, then hancurlah country. So the mother who will "form the" character and condition of a nation.
For that, I hope the women residents of this nation does not forget her feminine nature, ie being a good mother. Women who are able to produce good offspring too, became the primary educator and the first that can shape the character and condition of the Indonesian nation a better and in his protection. Amen. And Allaah knows best .***
Author Founder Inspiration Assembly Qur'an and Reality of Nature (MIQRA) Indonesia. http://www.miqra.blogspot.com
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