Leadership Management in the Household

Leadership Management in the Household
By Arda Dinata
http://www.miqra.blogspot.com

"Each of you is leader and every leader will be asked for his leadership. And human leaders (faith), it is also a leader who will be asked for his leadership. And every man's top leaders kelaurganya; and will kepemimpinanya asked for. Each waiter was a leader in the care of his master's property, and will be asked for kepemimpinanya. Then each leader will be asked for his leadership. "(Narrated by Muslim).

BY Kurnia Istadi Irawati, the two most important years in human life is at the early age. And in those days gold was the babies spent more time at home with mother. Touch the quality of education provided at the age of the mother will determine their quality to adults later.

The issue is very diverse family. Although the husband as head of the family, but usually more everyday matters assigned or delegated decision to the wife. That means hundreds of smaller policies that women decide from day to day, is like small pieces of the puzzle that are complementary to each other, so that future arrangements will produce a beautiful picture of life and perfect. Thus, a small piece of the policy despite minor part in determining the future image of a family.

So do not underestimate the importance of household management as penyempurna effort in order to form a family order sakinah. Simply put, household management is defined as activities undertaken to get the job done through other people, but it can also mean managing a family member to perform activities in the household. Management process that includes action planning, organizing, driving and monitoring through the utilization of human resources and other sources.

Such processes, is clearly support in the management of the family. Because, with hours of work 24 hours a day, most people still think the profession beyond the household manager duties of a wife. In fact, the required skills are not playing games. According to Isaac solih, a manager must have leadership qualities, such as: charismatic, powerful and able to carry and lead subordinates, honest, terpecaya, wise, brave, introspective, and able to overcome adversity, to be fair, simple, full of devotion to the task, patient and generous.

The existence of the nature of leadership at the head of the family or a housewife like that, so support the success of household management to happiness and prosperity in daily life.

Family Leadership

In a complete family, the supreme leader is the husband (the term is called the management of top manager). Then the two leaders was the wife who can be called a middle manager or a manager as well as lower. And general application to the division of tasks is sufficient. Husband as head of the family (who led his wife) and wife as homemaker.

The role of leadership in fostering households occupying a strategic place and determine whether the family can achieve prosperity. Because of, in this exemplary conduct required of parents. That is, attitudes and actions of a head of household or housewife will have a big impact family members.

Here are some pointers for every household leaders contained in the teachings of Islam. Therefore, according to Isaac Solih, I hope the leaders of bad character (read: the nature and character of liberal dictator-Pen) can improve the understanding, experiencing and trying to practice the instructions below.

First, in building a prosperous family, a family member is obliged to maintain themselves in the attitudes and behavior of everyday life, so that the realization of a harmonious life. Especially for the head or the mother's family and household must maintain themselves and keep all the members of his family. (read: QS. At-Tahrim [66]: 6).

Second, every head of household or housewives must mempertanggung accountable leadership in the world and in akherat later. The Prophet said: "Each of you is leader and every leader will be asked for his leadership. And human leaders (faith), it is also a leader who will be asked for his leadership. And every man's top leaders kelaurganya; and will be asked for kepemimpinanya. Each waiter was a leader in the care of his master's property, and will be asked for kepemimpinanya. Then each leader will be asked for his leadership. "(Narrated by Muslim).

Third, every leader of the family should be gentle to all subordinates. If there are errors forgive them even ask for forgiveness for him. In matters concerning the interests of families, both in the planning, organizing, mobilization and supervision, should like to deliberation. (read: QS. Ali Imran [3]: 159).

Fourth, the relationship between the lead and led in the family, should be fostered ties of affection besides other material factors. Each other should be patient in the pursuit of happiness together. (read: QS. At-Tauba [9]: 128).

Fifth, in the family should be created there and pray for each other mencitai between leaders and led. Hindarkanlah hate each other and curse each other. According to the Prophet, the best among you are the leader you love and who loves you, that ye ask for him and for you Barkah.

Sixth, a husband should be fair to his wife. Similarly, as a parent to his children and other family members. Hatred towards members should be avoided. If there are attitudes and behavior that is not good, should be corrected with patience, so that attitudes and behavior are lost with self-education of family members, not even being unjust. (Surat Al-Maidah [5]: 8).

Finally, expected pemimpim role in household management process will bring about happiness and prosperity in the family. Amen. Wallahu'alam .***

Author Founder Inspiration Assembly Qur'an and Reality of Nature (MIQRA) Indonesia. http://www.miqra.blogspot.com